Wednesday, October 25, 2006

Scratching my head!!!

Sometimes you feel the whole world is against you, that nothing seems to go the way you want it to go. that the sun rises only in te east and sets only in the west and not the other way around..

Hmm I was just thinking.. is it us who made the wrong choice and decision or is it that we are looking in the wrong direction and complaing that things are not going the way they must go?

It can be either or both the above... Sometimes we make the wrong choices and sometimes we are just off the target and wonder why things are not happening.. But how do we find out if what we are doing is right?

7 comments:

RS said...

By asking the right questions and acting on the decisions.

Vidya said...

@RS - right.. but that was exactly the question I was asking.. How do u know that u r asking yourself the "Right" question?

Guruprasad said...

thats true...deciding whats "right" is by itself a daunting task!

RS said...

Vidhya, what I meant was - Ask yourself why you made the decisions you made in the past, & now, with more facts in hand, does the decision you made makes sense today, why & why not, etc.

We are given certain 'options' and asked to make as much sense as we can, at any particular instant. In hindsight, we always know more and feel diffrently. That's what I meant by ask questions and make your choices on what you know!

Good luck

Prince John said...

old people when asked would say they would do more mistakes if they get the chance. Even the Hindi filmstar Aamir Khan started rambling that he could do better in the past.

it is always going to be so and I think there is no answer, but there will be questions like which came first mango or mango tree.

sometimes you get a lemon. you can complain it is too sour to eat. some people prefer making a lemonade. I dont know what type you are...

Let me say, don't think much or ask too much questions. What the heck are you going to do with the answer?

ha ha ha ha i can see you scratching your head ;) that exactly is what I want... giving you a lemonade...

gils said...

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Praveen said...

Hello Vidhya,

Pretty interesting and to add for my part No one makes wrong choices nor take wrong decisions.The choices we make tend to move in wrong direction because of various factors which may or may not be in our control.When sachin goes for a pull shot thats not a wrong choice , Bowler may bowl an excellent ball to get sachin out.So here sachin made a decision which was right at the moment but got out for a factor which he could not control.Obviously he cannot judge the bowler always. So make decision idf it goes wrong, Dont think about the wrong choice bcoz it hurts more, just take it easy and do try to learn from the decision a little bit though not more,....Life is full of ups and downs, Beleive me downs make u feel better when u reach the next up.

-Praveen